Old 06-05-2010, 02:08 PM   #1
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How 2 Read Peoples Mind
While we haven't yet reached the age of flying cars and robot wars, we have at least reached the point where we know how to read people's minds. These days, there are various methods you can use to know what another person is thinking.

These methods range from the basic to the scientific. If you want to explore the knowledge of how to read people's minds, check out some of these tips below.

Body Language

One of the basic ways on how to read people's minds is by reading their body language. As primitive as this method might seem, not a lot of people seem to know about it or know how to actually use it. However, I'll let you in on some of the key bodily movements that can help you read people's minds.

When talking to a person, notice the direction that their knees are pointed. If the knees are turned towards you, then you know that the other person is interested in you and agrees with what you're saying. On the other hand, it they're turned away from you, then you better think of a way to capture their interest.

Eye Movement

Here's how to read people's minds through their eyes. When a person is trying to create an image out of nothing, they will most likely look upward and to the left.
In the meantime, a person trying to remember a particular image will most likely look upward and to the right. As effective as this method is, don't let it be the last straw when making a decision.

Brain Activity

On a more scientific scale, there has been a small yet significant progress when it comes to knowing how to read people's minds. Neuroscientist Kendrick Kay, along with his colleagues, has stumbled upon a way to determine which image a person is looking at without ever seeing the images before.

According to "Scientific American," the team was able to create a computer model that could read a person's brain activity accurately. That model could read the brightness and angle the person perceived when looking at the picture; so when the series of pictures was presented to the model, it was able to determine which picture the person was looking at by comparing its brightness and angle. Of course, the model is not 100% right all the time as some pictures may have similar amounts of brightness and angle.

Learning how to read people's minds can be interpreted in many, different ways. While we haven't yet reached the point where reading people's minds is as easy as looking above their heads and reading words from a thought bubble, we have at least made it halfway there.
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Old 06-05-2010, 02:11 PM   #2
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How to Deal With People You Don't Like in 3 Simple Steps

Gone are the days when you have to fume silently as your neighbor makes that awful racket with his lawn mower, or when your co-worker becomes too nosy. After you read this article, you'll know some secrets on how to deal with people you don't like.
Sometimes, life just happens to give you one for the road and if you're rather unlucky, one that you have to deal with constantly. However, you can learn how to tackle this situation better. You can learn how to deal with people you don't like.

1) Nobody's Perfect.

Understand that nobody's perfect. We have your own flaws and that doesn't really make us much different from the person we dislike.
So the next time Larry laughs that annoying laugh of his, relax and tell yourself that his laugh is just part of life's design. It's just his flaw and something that he cannot really help. Or when Martha starts gossiping about the life of John and Jane, tell yourself that nobody's perfect.

2) Focus on the Positive.

While nobody's perfect, nobody's not without merit either. So one effective way to deal with people you don't like is to focus on their positive traits or deeds.
Despite his annoying laugh, Larry does work hard when the situation calls for it. And even though Martha is such a talkative person, she does remember your birthday and even surprised you with an office party last year.
Once you focus on their positive traits, you'll have an easier time liking them - or at least, not hating them.

3) Be Nice to Them.

I know this sounds crazy; but one of the reliable methods on how to deal with people you don't like is by being kind to them. Doing something good for others leaves you with a warm feeling inside.
By doing nice things for the person you dislike, you are associating that warm feeling with him or her. And if you're nice, he or she will be more likely to return the favor.

These are some of the positive ways on how to deal with people you don't like. Anger is never a good thing and frustration shouldn't be left to reach boiling point. The suggestions above are some of the best ways to handle your situation. You'll not only be doing yourself a favor, you'll also be building solid relationships with anyone.
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